SwingFest Orlando, Florida - July 22nd - 25th, 2010
We are pleased to announce the 2010 SwingFest Swingers Convention to be held in Orlando, Florida, July 22nd through July 25th.
Party for four days and three nights at Swingerfest with swingers from all over the world.
Three large pools with nudity allowed on both Friday and Saturday.
Themed swingers play rooms for sexually adventurous times.
Swingerfest Parties including a Sexy Lingerie Party.
Tradeshow & Adult Expo with swinger and adult related businesses.
SwingFest, “the leader in the lifestyle industry,” has launched this new feature for anyone to use. Get your free “Who you are, where you are” profile. Like the example one you see below, you can add your screen names from your multiple lifestyle profiles, or any other profile you have on networking sites to one convenient place.
This is the place to let anyone and everyone know who you are and where you are on the internet.
We have changed our affiliate/referral program so even you, the attendee, can earn cold hard cash.
The new SwingFest affiliate program is free to use and very simple to operate. Every time you refer someone to swingfestevents.com and they register* for the SwingFest 2010 in Orlando, and spend more than $99, you earn a $25 cash reward for the referral. Click Here to Join
When attending the SwingFest 2010 Orlando, Florida swinger conventions, you will experience what thousands of 2008 and 2009 attendees enjoyed in Hollywood and Miami, Florida.
Thank you for your ongoing support and promotion of SwingFest, and for making us “The leader in the lifestyle.” Do not hesitate if you are new in the swinger lifestyle to contact us with any questions, and please, review our “Why Start Swinging” information below. We look forward to seeing and partying with you in Florida!
2008 SwingFest Party Highlights
Didn't make it to SwingFest 08? Here is just some of what you missed... YES, that is a pool...
Question 7: SwingFest Discounts, what gives? Posted on Blogspot - Tuesday, February 16, 2010
In 2008, we had utilized a different marketing plan and philosophy when we set our pricing structures, to include giving discounts throughout the year. I was never a big fan of this marketing strategy, it was our first year and so I tested the theory, took the hits, and even the accolades. That was our first shoot out of the gate, and it has been difficult to change the philosophy from the consumer's point of view.
For 2008's event, we promoted discounts on special dates i.e. Valentine's, New Year's, etc. There were mixed, and bitter feelings for some attendees. The ones who were able to use the specials, of course, liked getting a deal; but for the ones that bought their package early to secure a good room were frustrated. I could see their point and gave credit when a credit was due.
In 2009, our philosophy was different because we were attempting to make the prices the lowest we could with out giving discounts. Not that we didn't want to give discounts, we just figured we would cut to the chase, and make it the lowest price possible from the beginning. Our plan was good in theory, and when we are negotiating SwingFest's contract with the host nine months previous, economics were not on their continual downward spiral. Sooner than later, we had to give discounts simply because we were getting people calling to cancel because they had lost their job, their hours were cut at work or their credit limit was dropped on their credit card, they couldn't afford to come. Faced with theses dilemmas, we needed to make a pragmatic decision to help in the best way we could. We thought long and hard about the ramifications of altering our pricing and the pro's out weighed the cons for free pass vouchers or a possible room discount. We sure did take our lumps and bumps, not only with attendees that paid early, like in 2008; but also lifestyle site's members, and especially travel agents that lost traffic to their sites. When we explained the economy is getting worse, and people need some sort of break, most understood. The ones that didn't understand the circumstances, well, there is nothing we can do to make them understand.
In 2010, we really took the economy into consideration, and that began with the resort because it is economical. The resort is perfect sized including many pools, we are providing complimentary beer and wine in the convention hall, plus more than adequate convention space for vendors and visitors. The city is easy to fly in and out of, not to mention a great vacation destination. So, where are the discounts for this year? SwingFest will not run any discounts on the corporate site this year. We are allowing exclusivity for lifestyle sites, travel agents, or a lifestyle friendly business, to run discounts approved by SwingFest only. I've taken this approach to help drive traffic to the sites and companies that support SwingFest.
Can't wait to see you at the event.
Question 6: Are you really for real? Posted on Blogspot - Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Don't you wonder about couples or singles in the lifestyle who proclaim in their profile, "We want to meet sexy couples to play with." As long, and as many sites we and our friends have been on, we have all read that tagline from time to time. We have responded, of course, because who does not want to play with other sexy couples, seems pretty cut and dry? Not always.
We have emailed the said sexy couple and after several getting-to-know-you emails, we then received the response, "...we haven't met anyone yet, we are just so busy..." Which we can understand having our own busy lives because even the best made plans can fail. Eventually, there is follow up from them and they will tell their real story, because what they really like about the lifestyle is the chatting, either through email or chat rooms, and looking at pictures on other couple's profile. We all have a little voyeur in us, and let's admit, there are some terrific pictures out there. It is understandable that this is their perspective, just wish they would have either updated their tagline, or maybe said something in email #2 or #3 that personal meetings is really not what they want.
Everybody has their own gig in the lifestyle, it is not always about the down and dirty with other couples. If these couples like cyberchat and pictures, then maybe they should not be so deliberate on their tagline, and be honest enough to not post that particular stated advertisement. People's profiles give the greatest opportunity to state preferences, including cyber over the real thing, and this will detour the real life people from the cybers.
There is room for everyone to play in the lifestyle, and seemingly most people have busy schedules and squeeze this in, too. So, instead of saying what you think people want to hear, say what you want or feel and get out there and do it. This lifestyle is really not singly just about sex with others, sometimes this lifestyle helps you in finding a part of your sexual self that you didn't even know was in there. And, what really makes being in the lifestyle indulgent is being honest with yourself, and your partner (if that's your situation), about what you want and how satisfied you are
Question 5: What it's like being a swinger living in a glass house? Posted on Blogspot - Monday, February 1, 2010
People often wonder what it is like living in a glass house without curtains. The proverbial house is the lifestyle and the lack of curtains that let people see us in it, is the way in which we are portrayed to others as they look in. Our house is not totally visible, it does have doors and curtains in other places. It is a lighter way to "look" at it, from our point of view and from others. People, even within the industry, do not conduct themselves as openly, by choice, for various reasons. It is a little difficult to be incognito when our business is the voice, ears and eyes of and within the lifestyle.
It is different being out in the open and letting others see. We have taken the stance that we knowingly take a chance to be more open rather than hide behind a walls that many do. There is usually a larger negative consequence for hiding all or even parts of the truth, then to put it out there. It is part of a larger decision to be truthful about the business and that we are behind it, it leaves little room for criticism or skepticism. As seen a lot, the consequences of the truth, or sometimes lack of it, are all over the media with those in a larger public arena.
Once the initial shock has gone after telling people, it is then old news. For example, take famous people who have cheated, and as the skeletons are falling out of their closet, it only delays the inevitable, "the truth." There is nothing more to ruminate or speculate about, unless there are questions. We have made friends, outside of the lifestyle that know what we do, either professionally or personally, and it did not sway their perspective of us. People seem to evolve with the times, tend to grasp other lifestyles more easily because the world is not so cookie cutter as it was ten, twenty or forty years ago. There are exceptions, there usually are to circumstance or individual, and that is okay, too. There is just as much, if not a greater tendency, to have offended people that we were not honest because they felt betrayed, in the early stages of us starting out in the lifestyle.
People perceive "swingers" negatively and don't seem to look at the bigger picture that participants in this particular lifestyle are not as dirty nor criminal as you want them to be. They are more like their neighbors and even your family. When you look at us, when you know us, we probably do not fulfill your stereotypical illusion. We are just regular people, but living in a glass house, please, don't throw rocks.
Question 4: What are the PLAYROOMS like at SwingFest? Posted on Blogspot - Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Let us start by saying that the playrooms in‘08 were less than the standard. We had a sponsor that could not fiscally fulfill his responsibility for the rooms and backed out at the last minute, literally, and without any warning. In our best attempt to rectify the situation at the last minute, we had to purchase inflatable beds and use vendor curtains for privacy. Most people appreciated the quick response and technique, it was better than the alternative, which was to not have had playrooms. It was an obstacle and we were hoping 2009 would be better.
In 2009, our friends Hugh and Judy, the owners of http://www.playcate.com, designed and delivered playrooms that were functional and sensual. The playrooms received great applause for the layout and ambiance. The positive reaction of the rooms was illustrated by the presence of wall-to-wall bodies, and in the case of the chocolate room that stayed open all night (and when we mean all night, they were shut down Sunday morning at 8:00).
The 2010 rooms will continue to improve this year because of the input and opinions of our attendees. The attendees are utilizing them and we will in every effort to enrich the experience in the playrooms. For example, we will have more beds, stronger guidelines for use and increased security to enforce the rules.
TOWEL ONLY ROOM:
This room’s primary function is a place that will require attendees to either wear a towel or be nude. The policy and function of this room will be enforced. This room was designed and offered, based on the many requests to be a resemblance of particular club’s play areas.
VOYEUR ROOM:
We put this room in this year for all who enjoy sitting back and watching, and especially for the ones who love to put on a show. In ’09, we had rooms that attracted people to play, and attracted many people that wanted to watch. There is a fine line between the people who love to let people watch, the people who really do not mind, but hate a gawker. In 2010, if you are playing in this room you should definitely expect to find people just stopping in to enjoy the view.
KINKY BDSM ROOM:
This room speaks for itself. It is for the freaky-deaky people out there. People have asked every year why we do not have BDSM equipment in the room to use. It is strictly an insurance issue, but we encourage people to bring what they want to fulfill their BDSM fantasy, and this will be the place to do that.
CHOCOLATE ROOM:
This is our most popular room every year. In ‘09 the room was by far the most popular playroom at the event. Friday into Saturday, and Saturday into Sunday morning hundreds upon hundreds of happy attendees enjoyed the room. Like, we previously mentioned, we had to kick people out on Sunday morning so hotel staff could get the room cleaned up. Every year we have been lucky to have great people hosting this room, and lusty women to enjoy their company. It was as much about a great party and the company as it was for the sex. For 2010, we will make this room the biggest to accommodate the masses.
BOOTY CALL ROOM:
Almost every lifestyle website has some sort of call to action button for people who are feeling that urge to do whatever crazy thing comes to mind. The theory behind this room is much the same. People come to this room when they want that quick spontaneous, let say “CALL TO ACTION.”
Question 3: First experience expectations. Posted on Blogspot - Monday, January 25, 2010
The scariest part about getting started is taking the first step. It is much easier to be hidden, in a way, behind a computer screen via emails, or sitting in the chat room talking sexy. We have all been there, and at some point, the emails and chat lead into the meeting, because after all, that is the path of the lifestyle-getting to meet face to face. Taking that plunge into the actually meeting a couple or couples for the first time is on such a different level.
It is as agonizing meeting new people to play with, as it was to have lost your virginity. We had found a couple on several sites that sparked our interest and so we initiated that intro email and waited for the response. The return was passive aggressive. Although we were attractive, we were too far away. Persistence pays off on some level, and we received an invitation to their home for a birthday party. They had another couple joining us, which was great because the more the merrier, but…it was another couple, and now we were going to be meeting TWO new couples.
There were days leading up to this meeting and we talked about the do’s, don’ts, what if’s, secret words, looks, etc. We were trying to cover our bases on how to read each other without saying a word in a whole different environment. We drove for several hours to get to our sexual destination, and then we sat in the driveway with a lot of angst, and slowly walked to the door like two teenagers going on a date.
Both couples were extraordinary and the night was fantastic to say the least, we didn’t have to utilize any secret looks or whispers, except the ones that reinforced we were both doing just fine.
That is not always the scenario and some couples get into situations that are uncomfortable or shocking for either or both. I think it is always best to not underestimate any scenario and be ready to juke. Sometimes you may have a drink and cigarette, maybe even cuddle after great sex, other times you may be given a wipe, a bottle of water and an adios out the door. There are people that seem “normal,” in email, or that their profile is a good and clear indication of what they are, or not into, but do not ever be afraid to ask questions. It is often easier to offend from the keyboard and retreat than the headboard.
Go into your first meeting, whether you play or not, knowing what you want and what you and your partner want and expect. You can always hit the bathroom and send a text, kick under the table or do your secret signal to stay or go. Sometimes it is better to not have any expectations and just see how everything happens. Our first experience gave us so much to build off of and opened new doors of communication and signals, and away we went.
I think everyone has a story of the good, the bad and the ugly.
Question 2: Single males and females how do they fit in at SwingFest? Posted on Blogspot - Thursday, January 21, 2010
We have seen a large number of couples that play with single males and that is why we allow them at the event. Our policy is stringent for a single male to attend. We try to maintain a 1 male per 50 couple ratio. I try to speak to each single male or female attendee, and confirm they are on a credible lifestyle website, have had experiences with other couples, and that are validated by couple(s) on websites. We are more apt to verify their credibility as a single male with the use of site verifications. Unfortunately, some sites don't have this sort of system built in, so we have gone as far as to have a couple be their reference. This process, or verification system does not need to be as strict for the attending single female, it has not been in our experience to have been prodded by their pretty horns.
Once they are at the event, I speak with each one personally when they are at registration and at that point give them their first warning," if you do anything that is less than classy, you will receive a second warning, if we speak again, you will be removed with no refunds." In the two years, dealing with over 250 single males, we have had to remove one from the event. Not a bad percentage.
We have seen over the years, you can pick out the single males who are new. They stand around like a dear in headlights. What has been great to watch, is how helpful couples and even other single males are and take these newbie’s under their wings and help them become successful in satisfying not only their own but other couples desires.
Question 1: Couples at SwingFest Posted on Blogspot - Wednesday, January 20, 2010
We are asked almost daily, from people who want to attend SwingFest,"What kinds of people attend SwingFest...we are concerned because..." The questions tend to gravitate towards the ages, body types and sexual activities of attendees. Prospective attendees want some assurance that when they attend, they will be attending without perceived bias of other attendees related to their age, height, weight or sexual activity.
We support the lifestyle and those within it without bias or restriction, and can only hope that the message is conveyed that we are an equal opportunity lifestyle event. We understand that from wherever you come or have been, there are going to be groups within the lifestyle that cater to certain ethic backgrounds, body types and even financial levels, it is a fragment of the world we live in and also play in. We support every group or person that attends SwingFest, and will continue to be open to like-minded individuals and groups within the lifestyle that promotes a safe and secure environment.
Our success is evident and promising when we accomplish putting a variety of groups together to attend one event, to not only support vendors and other businesses within the lifestyle, but in one weekend, a multitude of people get together for a big adult only party and B2B event for the like-minded. Contrary to the perceived connotation of the swinger, we all understand that new friendships and contacts are made without having to have sex together. Meeting new people with similar thoughts and sexual openness during SwingFest is an incredible undertaking where people from all over the world come together and party as a common group with common desires.
People who for the first time learn about the swinging lifestyle often assume that there has to be something wrong in a relationship within a couple for them to join in. Ironically, the truth is completely the opposite. This lifestyle is ONLY for couples that are happy, committed, and secure in their relationships.
So, what makes this lifestyle so special and why do a growing number of modern couples decide to join in? The fact is that there is nothing different about the people who participate in the lifestyle. What's different is the way they go about exploring their fantasies and sexuality.
Sex used to be something that only people who are deeply in love, and most of the time married, were supposed to share. One of the new realized realities of our society today is the fact that most people can now separate love and sex. Sex is becoming something more of a leisure, if you will, rather than an experience shared only with your soulmate. Does this mean that sex is no longer a physical expression of love? Of course - it still is! We still reserve "love making" only for the ones we love. However, the recreational sex is becoming something that can be detached from an actual relationship and enjoyed as an entirely separate activity.
Another new reality of the modern society is the fact that many people do require sexual variety to live a fully enjoyable sex lives. It is not a secret that most modern marriages during its existence are challenge by adultery or end up in divorce. We've all heard the statistics. Does it mean we don't love our partners or don't want them as much sexually any more? Absolutely not! "Different" doesn't mean "better". For example, when one looks at someone of an opposite sex other than his or her partner - it is not in a search for something better. By looking at someone different, we find excitement in exploring their body shapes, moves, sexuality - it's all very new, different and, therefore, exciting. Variety is what makes many people excited and the lust for it is here to stay.
One of the other newly accepted parts of our sex lives are our fantasies. By definition, they are our sexual desires which many times do NOT include our partners ( or at least not JUST them ). Even well recognized sex therapists have concluded that sexual fantasies are healthy and are here to stay as a part of almost any relationship.
So, what are the choices that modern couples face today if they are seeking some variety or spice in their sex lives? Well, there are several options. One is to suppress your feeling and keep going in denial. That is the approach that works on the surface. Everything looks great - you are a traditional "happy" couple who want to be with no one else, but each other. ( Oh, how sweet! ) But the fact of the matter is that you are lying not only to yourself, but also to your partner. By suppressing your feelings you are not getting rid of them, but many times you actually make them stronger.
So, there goes the trust and communication that few relationships can survive without. The second choice is something that quite a few people choose to do as a way out - adultery. Even though in this case you do get to satisfy your desires, you once again end up with the absence of those two main ingredients of any strong relationship that we just talked about. The third choice is something that has only been recently discovered by the mainstream couples - swinging. It is a lifestyle that not only keeps the trust and communication between the two partners - it requires both of those qualities to participate.
The swinging lifestyle is about sharing the sexual fantasies together with your partner ("together" being the keyword). This is the lifestyle that can only work for the committed couples that are secure in their relationships and have open and direct communication with each other.
Another misunderstanding about the lifestyle is the myth that swingers are people who screw everyone they meet in the lifestyle and do it as often as they can. That can't be further from the truth! As a matter of fact, most couples are not what's called "hardcore swingers".
There are different types of swinging and a couple can select the one that caters to their sexuality the best. You can go only as far as social flirting, light touching with a friendly couple, or you can choose to get sexual with just your own partner while another couple is enjoying each other in the same room. It all depends on how you and your partner want your swinging experience to happen, and you should never go any further than the comfort level that you have set.
There are several kinds of swinging that couples choose to participate in. There is a "traditional" couple to couple relationship, where two couples exchange partners for the sexual activities and sometimes participate in bi-sexual play as well. There are three-way relationships where a couple invites a single male or female to play along with them. Some couples prefer to only swap bi-sexual partners. There are several more types of swinging, and they all are about sharing desires together with your partner and growing from it within your own relationship.
You don't have to jump into the lifestyle by going all the way with the first people you meet. Many couples choose to take it slow while adjusting to the new lifestyle. Some start by looking at others and talking about what they find attractive. Watching adult movies together could be another way to share fantasies and desires before inviting others to join you. Using toys, role-playing, flirting are all ways to explore. It is OK to take your time and in many cases it takes a while from the moment a couple decides to explore to their first sexual encounter.
Even though couples that join the lifestyle are looking to enhance their sex lives and overall relationships, it is also important to make sure not to damage what you already have. Each member of a couple must have a desire to satisfy both of their fantasies and not just their own.
If one partner is looking to only satisfy his or her own desires dragging their partner along for the ride, it is a pretty good indication that there is something wrong in a relationship as is. In that case it is strongly recommended not to participate in the lifestyle at all. Your primary relationship with your partner is the most important thing and should be the number one priority throughout your experiences in the lifestyle.
So, make sure to keep the communication gates open between you and your partner at all times and set your pace and rules upfront for the most enjoyable experiences. Happy swinging!
People who for the first time learn about the swinging lifestyle often assume that there has to be something wrong in a relationship within a couple for them to join in. Ironically, the truth is completely the opposite. This lifestyle is ONLY for couples that are happy, committed, and secure in their relationships.
So, what are the choices that modern couples face today if they are seeking some variety or spice in their sex lives? Well, there are several options. One is to suppress your feeling and keep going in denial. That is the approach that works on the surface. Everything looks great - you are a traditional "happy" couple who want to be with no one else, but each other. ( Oh, how sweet! ) But the fact of the matter is that you are lying not only to yourself, but also to your partner. By suppressing your feelings you are not getting rid of them, but many times you actually make them stronger.
You don't have to jump into the lifestyle by going all the way with the first people you meet. Many couples choose to take it slow while adjusting to the new lifestyle. Some start by looking at others and talking about what they find attractive. Watching adult movies together could be another way to share fantasies and desires before inviting others to join you. Using toys, role-playing, flirting are all ways to explore. It is OK to take your time and in many cases it takes a while from the moment a couple decides to explore to their first sexual encounter.
